foreverlabeled ( member #52070) posted at 9:28 PM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2026
My finding? It is not.
Why don't you post this in General where BSs can give their input. That is the demographic you need to hear from.
WW - dday 02/29/16
Your journey is not the same as mine, and my journey is not the same as yours, but if we meet on a certain path, may we encourage each other.
Bulcy ( member #74034) posted at 9:48 PM on Wednesday, August 26th, 2026
Surely, someone here has done what I am seeking to do!
In my time reading and posting on here I have read several people who believe that can still have relationship with their AP. I was one of them.
I am not aware of anyone doing this successfully and the people I know who thought they could, have, over time realised the impossibility of saving their marriage and still being in contact with AP. I'm sure somewhere out there you could fine people who have worked like this, but I would imagine it is rare. You are not finding support for what you feel you need. The people responding to this post, including myself, post from experience and in most cases have felt and thought what you are feeling.
I wish you luck in your recovery
WH (50's)
Multiple sexual, emotional and online affairs. Financial infidelity and emotional abuse. Physical abuse and intimidation.
D-days 2003, 2017, multiple d-days and TT through 2018 to 2023. 28 years of destructive and health damaging choice
